What the stigma” Defeat” does to you!


A failure or setback is not a defeat. Defeat is a state is a state of mind. You are defeated only when you accept defeat ,and assume the hopeless mind set of a defeated person. Learn from your mistakes and view your setbacks as the cost of getting an education. It is very healthy to engage in some constructive self- criticism. It helps you become better person. Never accept defeat. Over criticize yourself. Never let a setback defeat you emotionally to the point that you draw negative self deprecating conclusions like “I will never make it, I am a loser,I might as well give up ,All  my critics were right”.
    That is the point at which self- criticism is unhealthy and dangerous. Do not do it, for it could ruin your entire life.



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